所以我认为我真的搞砸了mariadb的配置文件。我使用apache2和mysql的专用服务器。我不知道服务器响应时间是由mysql响应查询花了太长时间还是代码本身引起的。我已经尝试了一些配置生成器，但我觉得它们不起作用。以下是专用服务器规格：
Intel C2750
32 GB RAM
256 GB SSD
#
# These groups are read by MariaDB server.
# Use it for options that only the server (but not clients) should see
#
# See the examples of server my.cnf files in /usr/share/mysql/
#
# this is read by the standalone daemon and embedded servers
[server]
# this is only for the mysqld standalone daemon
[mysqld]
#
# * Basic Settings
#
user = mysql
pid-file = /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.pid
socket = /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
port = 3306
basedir = /usr
datadir = /var/lib/mysql
tmpdir = /tmp
lc-messages-dir = /usr/share/mysql
skip-external-locking
# Skip reverse DNS lookup of clients
skip-name-resolve
# Instead of skip-networking the default is now to listen only on
# localhost which is more compatible and is not less secure.
# bind-address = 127.0.0.1
#
# * Fine Tuning
#
key_buffer_size = 5048M
key-buffer-size = 32M
max_allowed_packet = 2024M
max-allowed-packet = 16M
max-connect-errors = 1000000
thread_stack = 1024K
thread_cache_size = 30
# This replaces the startup script and checks MyISAM tables if needed
# the first time they are touched
myisam_recover_options = BACKUP
max_connections = 500
table_cache = 100
table_open_cache = 3000
table_definition_cache = 9000
join_buffer_size = 300K
performance_schema = ON
#thread_concurrency = 10
max_user_connections = 455
#
# * Query Cache Configuration
#
query_cache_limit = 1048M
query_cache_size = 0
query_cache_type = 0
slow-query-log = 1
slow-query-log-file = /var/lib/mysql/mysql-slow.log
long_query_time = 1
#
# * Logging and Replication
#
# Both location gets rotated by the cronjob.
# Be aware that this log type is a performance killer.
# As of 5.1 you can enable the log at runtime!
#general_log_file = /var/log/mysql/mysql.log
#general_log = 1
#
# Error log - should be very few entries.
#
log_error = /var/log/mysql/error.log
#
# Enable the slow query log to see queries with especially long duration
#slow_query_log_file = /var/log/mysql/mariadb-slow.log
#long_query_time = 10
#log_slow_rate_limit = 1000
#log_slow_verbosity = query_plan
#log-queries-not-using-indexes
#
# The following can be used as easy to replay backup logs or for replication.
# note: if you are setting up a replication slave, see README.Debian about
# other settings you may need to change.
#server-id = 1
#log_bin = /var/log/mysql/mysql-bin.log
expire_logs_days = 10
max_binlog_size = 100M
#binlog_do_db = include_database_name
#binlog_ignore_db = exclude_database_name
#
# * InnoDB
#
# InnoDB is enabled by default with a 10MB datafile in /var/lib/mysql/.
# Read the manual for more InnoDB related options. There are many!
innodb_buffer_pool_size = 15G
#innodb_s_lock_spin_rounds = 120
#innodb_thread_concurrency = 0
innodb_log_file_size = 3G
innodb_buffer_pool_instances = 25
tmp-table-size = 32M
max-heap-table-size = 32M
query-cache-type = 0
query-cache-size = 0
max-connections = 500
thread-cache-size = 50
open-files-limit = 65535
table-definition-cache = 4096
table-open-cache = 100
innodb-flush-method = O_DIRECT
innodb-log-files-in-group = 2
innodb-log-file-size = 512M
innodb-flush-log-at-trx-commit = 2
innodb-file-per-table = 1
innodb-buffer-pool-size = 26G
#innodb_buffer_size = 256M
#
# * Security Features
#
# Read the manual, too, if you want chroot!
# chroot = /var/lib/mysql/
#
# For generating SSL certificates you can use for example the GUI tool "tinyca".
#
# ssl-ca=/etc/mysql/cacert.pem
# ssl-cert=/etc/mysql/server-cert.pem
# ssl-key=/etc/mysql/server-key.pem
#
# Accept only connections using the latest and most secure TLS protocol version.
# ..when MariaDB is compiled with OpenSSL:
# ssl-cipher=TLSv1.2
# ..when MariaDB is compiled with YaSSL (default in Debian):
# ssl=on
#
# * Character sets
#
# MySQL/MariaDB default is Latin1, but in Debian we rather default to the full
# utf8 4-byte character set. See also client.cnf
#
character-set-server = utf8mb4
collation-server = utf8mb4_general_ci
#
# * Unix socket authentication plugin is built-in since 10.0.22-6
#
# Needed so the root database user can authenticate without a password but
# only when running as the unix root user.
#
# Also available for other users if required.
# See https://mariadb.com/kb/en/unix_socket-authentication-plugin/
# this is only for embedded server
[embedded]
# This group is only read by MariaDB servers, not by MySQL.
# If you use the same .cnf file for MySQL and MariaDB,
# you can put MariaDB-only options here
[mariadb]
# This group is only read by MariaDB-10.1 servers.
# If you use the same .cnf file for MariaDB of different versions,
# use this group for options that older servers don't understand
[mariadb-10.1]
请记住，如果多次指定选项，则只有该选项的最后一个设置生效。你有不少重复，这只会导致混淆哪个值真正起作用。
我建议你做以下事情：
[mysqld]部分中的行）。我注意到你有：
innodb-buffer-pool-size = 26G
这是32G RAM的81％。假设缓冲池使用至少10％的额外，所以它真的使用28.6G。因此，服务器上的所有其他RAM需求只有3.4G，包括MySQL，Apache，其他进程和操作系统本身。
除了缓冲池之外，MySQL还有其他RAM用途，特别是每个连接，并且最多允许500个连接。
您还可以在同一台服务器上运行Apache，自然也就是Apache运行的任何Web应用程序。他们每个人都会使用RAM，我无法预测多少，因为它完全取决于你的应用程序代码。 Apache允许多个并发请求运行，因此您可能有数十或数百个Web应用程序处理请求的副本。
所以我想知道你是否只是使用太多的RAM，并强迫服务器使用磁盘上的交换空间。这是任何服务器的性能杀手，因为磁盘（甚至SSD）比RAM慢几个数量级。
您应该使用top或free或vmstat监视内存使用情况。如果您看到RAM耗尽且系统使用swap，您应该尝试减少RAM的分配，或者限制连接数或Apache请求数。您还可以安装更多RAM，甚至将Apache移动到第二个专用服务器。